December 02, 2019

I Spent a Day Completely Offline

Why I Did It

I decided to go offline for a full day—no phone, no laptop, no tablet. My goal was simple: to disconnect from distractions and see how it would affect my focus and creativity.

Lately, I noticed that even when I tried to do something meaningful, like writing, I’d pick up my phone to look up a word. Then I’d see a notification, click on it, and suddenly I was scrolling through Instagram for 15 minutes. It left me feeling frustrated and guilty. I knew I needed a break, so I put all my devices in a drawer and gave myself one day of digital detox.

The Results: Better Focus and Productivity

The results were better than I expected.

I read an entire 450-page book in one day. Normally, that would take me three days or even a few weeks. For the first time in a while, reading felt easy, fun, and fulfilling. Books gave me exactly what I wanted—ideas, knowledge, and entertainment. Over the next few days, I finished three books and even downloaded more to keep the momentum going.

Writing and Reflection

Without screens, I also had time to write. I journaled my thoughts and emotions throughout the day. It reminded me how many thoughts we have each day—some say up to 80,000. If I don’t write them down, I tend to forget or lose the words to describe how I feel.

There are many times when I feel something deeply but don’t know how to express it. And if I don’t process the things I read, I forget them after a while. Writing helps me understand myself better and hold onto the lessons I learn.

On Creativity and Imagination

This experiment also made me realize something bigger—I’ve been lacking imagination. My boyfriend often remembers his wild and adventurous dreams, while I rarely recall mine. When he asks about my dreams or feelings, sometimes I don’t even know where to begin.

I used to believe creativity was only for artists, and that reality didn’t leave much room for imagination. But now I know that imagination plays a key role in creating anything meaningful. Alongside effort, it helps bring ideas to life. And thankfully, creativity isn’t fixed—it can be developed and nurtured.

Returning to Devices with Intention

After the detox, I returned to using my devices, but with one major change: I stopped using social media. I realized my brain needs space to process ideas and spark imagination. Constant updates about strangers' lives or online drama don’t serve me in any meaningful way.

I still use the internet to read articles, find book recommendations, and stay updated. There’s so much to explore and learn online, and I don't want to miss out. The goal isn’t to cut out technology completely, but to be more mindful of how I use it.

Finding Your Own Balance

Everyone has a different approach to managing screen time. Some phones have built-in tools to track usage, which is a helpful way to stay aware of how much time you spend on your device. What feels like five minutes can easily turn into an hour if you’re not paying attention.

For example, my boyfriend switched his phone to greyscale to make it less appealing to use. (I originally thought he used an app, but turns out it’s just a built-in setting.)

Final Thoughts

Taking just one day offline helped me reset. I reconnected with reading, rediscovered the joy of writing, and gave my mind the quiet it needed to think freely. Going forward, I want to keep this balance—using technology when it adds value, and stepping away when it doesn’t.

If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed or uninspired, maybe try unplugging for a day. You might be surprised by what comes up when the noise is gone. 

November 18, 2019

Books I've read in 2019 so far

2019 was a good year for me. I bought more books and actually read more than I did the year before. Little by little, I’ve come to realize how important it is to feed my mind with books. This shift in mindset was partly thanks to some productivity content I found online and a few impactful books I read earlier.

That said, I do have one small regret. I didn’t reach my reading goal. Every January, I aim to read 50 books, but I haven’t quite made it yet. Still, I’m proud of the progress I’ve made. Small steps really do add up, and I can see that I’ve improved compared to last year, which is something to celebrate.

I don’t think reading automatically makes someone successful, but I do believe that most successful people make reading a habit. People like Bill Gates and Barack Obama dedicate time and money to books because they understand the value of learning. I’ve also come across a statistic that says 85 percent of self-made millionaires read at least two books a month. They make the most of their time and use every opportunity to learn something new. It’s easy to overlook how just five minutes wasted each day can turn into over 30 hours lost in a year, time that could have been spent reading. That’s time that could have been used to finish a few books.

So, here’s a list of the books I read in 2019. If I couldn’t find the English title or if the book is by a Vietnamese author, I’ve included the original Vietnamese title instead.


  1. Miracle Apples - Takuji Ishikawa
  2. Becoming - Michelle Obama
  3. Bill Gates - James Wallace & Jim Erickson
  4. The little book of Hygge - Meik Wiking
  5. Lagom - Niki Brantmark
  6. Goodbye Things - Sasaki Fumio
  7. Dan Sha Ri - Hideko Yamashita
  8. L'art De La Simplicité - Dominique Loreau
  9. What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20 - Tina Seelig
  10. The Art Of Simple Living - Shunmyo Masuno
  11. Let It Be Easy - Tolly Burkan
  12. Minimal ni Kurasu with Mujirushi Ryohin - Michelle
  13. I've Been Thinking - Maria Shriver
  14. Sapiens - Yuval Noah Harari *
  15. The Universe In A Nutshell - Stephen Hawking *
  16. A Brief History Of Time - Stephen Hawking *
  17. George And The Big Bang - Lucy Hawking & Stephan Hawking *
  18. Nguoi Toi Gian - Pham Quynh Giang
  19. Chuyen Tau Mot Chieu Khong Tro Lai - Kien Tran
  20. Duong Ve Nha - Dinh Phuong Linh
  21. Toi, Tuong Lai Va The Gioi - Nguyen Phi Van
  22. Thuat Noi Chuyen Hang Ngay - Hoang Xuan Viet
  23. Beyond Mars and Venus - John Gray
  24. A Monk's Guide To A Clean House and Mind - Shoukei Matsumoto
  25. Barking Up The Wrong Tree - Eric Barker *
  26. Zero Waste Home - Bea Johnson
  27. Ikigai - Hector Garcia & Francesc Miralles
  28. Bearing The Unbearable - Joanne Cacciatore
  29. 我喜欢这个功利的世界 - 咪蒙 (Song Thuc Te Giua Doi Thuc Dung)
  30. The Science Of Money - Brian Tracy & Dan Strutzel
  31. Problem Solving 101: A Simple Book For Smart People - Ken Watanabe
  32. Elon Musk - Ashlee Vance
  33. The Rainbow Troops - Andrea Hirata
  34. Educated - Tara Westover
  35. When Breath Becomes Air - Paul Kalanithi
  36. Khoi Nghiep Ban Le - Tran Thanh Phong
    * I'm still reading and will finish them before 2019 ends.

November 15, 2019

On Laziness, Learning, and Showing Up Anyway

Sometimes I get stuck in a loop of being lazy, unmotivated, and procrastinating just like everyone else, I guess. When that happens, I usually turn to YouTube productivity videos or scroll through articles on Medium to feel inspired again. It’s like tricking my brain into thinking, “Yeah, we’re doing something useful now.”

Today I read another Medium article about productivity. The author recommended practicing certain skills every day to improve yourself: learning how to learn, writing, public speaking, meditation, building habits, negotiation, mathematical thinking, coordination, and flexibility. Sounds like a lot, right? But it made sense and it got me thinking.

Out of all those, “learning how to learn” really stuck with me. I’ve always studied when I had to, like for a test or a deadline, but I never really thought about how to learn better. Lately I’ve been overwhelmed by how much I need to learn in a short time, and it finally hit me—wow, I actually don’t know how to study efficiently. How did I go so long without realizing that? Then I remembered the 10,000-hour rule from Malcolm Gladwell’s Outliers—you don’t need to be super smart, you just need to put in the time. Practice enough, and you’ll eventually outperform people who rely on raw talent but don’t try. That idea gives me hope!

One of the habits I’m starting with is writing. Partly because I want to improve, and partly because IELTS writing is killing me. I always freeze and have no idea what to say or what side to take when it comes to Task 2. So here I am, writing this, hoping that doing it regularly will help me think faster and express myself better. Even this post took forever and gave me a bit of a headache, but at least I showed up.

So now I’m slowly building new habits: writing more and being more intentional with how I learn. I’m curious to see how I’ll feel after a month of doing this stuff consistently. We’ll see if I actually become one of those who “have their life together” or if I just end up with more drafts. Either way, it’s a start.